??? He goes on to say the first thing you should ask on a dinner date is "how are you mad?" As in crazy. I always ask on a first date "tell me all your fucked up qualities!" I figure it's good to just get to the point on both ends. Maybe now I'll start with "hi, I'm crazy and hoping you are aware that you are to.. let's do this." Alain de Botton is a genius thank you for sharing @aneedleaday My concepts of romanticism are now forever destroyed. ???❤️