fredandfar | INSTAGRAM | SEP 21

A repost from our friends and #wcw at @loveprojectlove: For years I have written letters to myself as if from my wise older 80 year old self, particularly in times when I've been struggling. Three years ago I wrote this letter to myself when I was frustrated at not having had a relationship for YEARS. I just found it in the bottom of a drawer...check out some of what I wrote: "...these years of longing for a partner in life have been hard, I know. I do understand. You thrive in partnership and to not have it in your life has not been easy, but you will one day be so incredibly thankful that you had the strength to not settle. So that you could learn lessons that have made you into the person you are. Deep down you chose it, so that you had the space to know yourSELF first before becoming a partner and creating a family..." WOW. Well just a year after that I was pregnant with little Sammy and very much in love with his dad and in a solid relationship...writing these letters to ourselves can be SO powerful. Full blog post on this soon xxx ???#inspiration #wisdom #motivation #love #selflove #loveyourself #loveletter #allthefeels