I don't know if you agree but I think our society mostly expects girls to look good, not make big things... In the last few days I have been thinking about the different style of compliments and comments. I have noticed that the comments which include something nice of my personality or what I've done mean much more to me than comments about how I look.
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It's not always even positive what we say about each other's outlooks. Maybe those are just neutral comments that stay in our mind for a long time because we wonder how we should take it. But I'm quite sure that in this world girls and women get more comments on how they look, not what they do or have achieved. And I think it shouldn't be like that. Outlooks shouldn't matter that much.
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I don't mean that there is anything wrong in saying what a nice jacket or hair someone has. The opposite. But I have decided to challenge myself to focus more on what positive I can say about people's acts, behaviour, personality and accomplishments. ❤️