you know what matters in sex? TALKING 🧡🧡. research has found that cisgender, straight women only come 65% of the time, compared with a whoppig 95% of cis-het men. if you struggle to climax during sex, regardless of who it’s with, you’re not alone. it’s nothing to be ashamed of - but it’s also nothing you have to put up with, either. learning how to come involves a lot of masturbation (fun), exploration and willingness to try new things (also fun) and TALKING TO YOUR PARTNERS (sometimes awkward but fun!). you deserve pleasure and you deserve pleasure from whoever you’re choosing to get naked with - but you have learn to ask for it, talk about it, and even direct it like you’re gunning to be the next greta gerwig. oh, and for the love god, no faking orgasms, deal? if there’s a surefire way to guarantee you *never* get what you want in bed, it’s letting people think they’re rocking your world when they’re barely causing a ripple. faking orgasms, in this economy? with this many nerve endings? no thank you.
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pic by: @charlotteabramow