is that good for you? 💧💧 orgasms are as personal as your thumbprint - one person’s way of climaxing in seven seconds flat (joe from you, anyone?) could be another’s absolute deal-breaker turn off. 😶😶 if you’re worried about your ability to come, you’re not alone. 40% of women have stated that they have difficulties having orgasms, either solo or with a partner, and only 6% of women claim to regularly have orgasms through penetrative sex. 😱😱 our advice? it’s important to get to know your body - take some time getting to know yourself and exactly what you like, how you like it, how fast… you get the picture. figure out what make you orgasm when you’re alone, and then try that out with your partner(s) - you’ll find yourself way more confident when it comes to orgasms. ✨✨ but remember that the *best* thing you can do is take the pressure off yourself - sex doesn’t have to be about orgasming and you’re way more likely to enjoy it if you’re not focused on the finish line.