@rachyyreneeđź’ś#YouArePlus
" Happy Sunday 💖 with this post I wanted to talk about something I haven’t really “blogged” about in a while, confidence. Many of you come to my page from TikTok asking how I’m so confident, how I don’t care what others think, how I’m happy in my body. Well I’m here to tell you that what you see on the internet isn’t always the truth. Do I consider myself confident? yes. Do I also break down crying because of what people say? The honest answer is yes, sometimes I do. A lot of people put up a sort of front for the internet. We want to seem perfect, we want you to think we have it all the together. The truth is we don’t, none of us do. The Important thing is that we all try to be better. I honestly wanted to address that because while I have some tips and advice to help with confidence & self love I don’t ever want you to think you have to have it perfect. I’m trying and growing just like every single one of you. Anyways let’s get into it. First and foremost you have to try and not let what others say to or about you get to you. Basic answer I know but it’s incredibly important. If you allow what others are saying to make its way into your head you’re going to start to believe it too. Why should another person care what you look like? What you wear? What you eat? How is that any of their concern? The fact of the matter is it’s not. People will always have an opinion on things that do not concern them whatsoever. You need to try your best to remember that what they think doesn’t equate to who you are, nor does it determine your value. Secondly know your worth and don’t settle for less. I don’t ever want you to think you can’t “do better” so you settle and get treated like crap. You deserve so much more than someone who doesn’t value and appreciate you for the amazing person you are. Side note: this goes for friendships too! Last but certainly not least you need to treat yourself how you want to be treated. #Confidence is alllll about you!! How you view yourself, how you think of yourself when your alone, how you talk about yourself with others. Nothing wrong with making a joke about yourself if you’ve seen my tiktoks you know I do that! "